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I take care of my feet for myself…

Not to attract men. Most men don’t have foot fetishes like you.

O_O

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As Dark Eyes said, there are a lot of angry people all over this site. I don’t know what it is about this site that attracts them but it does. This section tends to attract sexists, and in particular since it was called Gender and Women’s Studies for a long time, sexist men. However, because of the general angry tone all over the site, and because of how over-the-top it often is, it’s hard to tell how much of it is truly sexism and how much of it is just trolling. Some things are clearly trolling, some are clearly legitimate, but most of it is hard to tell.

It doesn’t help this is a fairly easy category to troll. All you really have to do is say something along the lines of “women get back in the kitchen” and you’ll set off a good fight.

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I don’t I want them to approach me but I seem to attract everybody but them. LOL

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They do? I’ve never heard nor seen that. Any sources?

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Forgive the bluntness of my reply, but here are my hypotheses (educated guesses):

You have no baggage:
1) you likely have not given birth to any children and/or have no children to take care of
2) you have no notable boyfriend(s)……… And even if you did, they’d be no match (physically, financially, and in other aspects) for the 50+ year old man or men that are interested in you.

The men are pervs… Perhaps potential pedos….. If not already pedos:
3) even if you dress conservatively, ALL males undress you (in their minds), and the fact that you’re still dressed makes them think that you’re resisting. They probably/likely feel like since in their minds that you’re ‘resisting’ that is a kind of turn-on for them. They’d think of it as a ‘do-able’ challenge.

4) they’ve fantasized about having sex with minor, or somebody who is just around the legal age or a year or so over the legal age……… (or secretly, they probably already have “done it” with a minor). I’ll give you 5 guesses on what kind of videos and photos you’re likely to find, if you ever gain access to their computer’s hard drives.

5) they’ve missed their chance at having a young girl for a girlfriend, while they themselves were at the prime of their youth……. So they’ve missed their opportunity to have that kind of relationship. That is, at least until they met you. Now, they’d see it as an opportunity knocking twice.

6) some guys don’t really care if you’re attractive or not. The fact that they’re going after something so highly questionable is a turn-on in and of itself (at least to them). If society deems it as taboo, they probably have the type of personality that refuses to conform, most especially if they feel like they can get away with it.

7) they are convinced they can get away with it.

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The butterflies in my neck of the woods like bee baum, phlox, and gayfeather (lataris).

Here is a website with lists of flowers that attract butterflies.
Http://www.thebutterflysite.com/butterfly-bush.shtml

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They like bananas. Split the bananas up and place it on a plate on your deck or garden. Good luck

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It depends. You can grow flowers that attract butterflies, but you don’t have to grow the plants that they will lay eggs on.

E.g. Monarch butterflies love buddleia flowers, but won’t lay their eggs on them.

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The plant you’re talking about is Buddleja davidii, which has been bred into a wide range of cultivars. All of them are equally good at drawing butterflies with their sweet nectar. These varieties can vary in height or flower color, and some even offer variegated leaves. If you have a smallish garden, be aware that these can grow quite large at maturity unless you select a more dwarf form. While you’re looking for a purple flower, knowing if you want dark royal purple or more of a lavender purple dictates which variety is best.

Below are some links to profiles of some of the finest purple buddleja plant profiles which include size and other characteristics. Black Knight is the top purple variety that is most widely available. Though Adonis Blue is less purple in color, it is one of the English Butterfly series of hybrids that offer smaller more manageable plants bred in Britain and readily available there.

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Very odd.

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Dragonflies eat other insects and find mosquitos yummy. Sorry, you won’t be able to attract dragonflies without creating a haven for mosquitos (can be a garbage can lid filled with water).

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Dragonflies are not really attracted to water, they are attracted more to the insects around water and swampy areas. I don’t think there is any real way to attract them to an area, because their lifespan is way to short. Once a dragonfly morphs from its nymph stage into the fly itself it will only live for 24 to 36 hours. Most of its time is spent eating the rest of its time is spent doing the nasty and laying eggs to make more dragon flies.

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Well, when it comes to myself, everything is attracted to me because I’m so hot, so I don’t know how to answer this in..normal people terms.

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Dragonflies eat mosquito ‘s an other small insects.

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Males have to display their egg laying site to the female. Then the female indicates if she is willing to mate and this is usually done by way of curving the abdomen. The male then proceeds to clasp the female.

The male has appendages at the end of its abdomen which help him to clasp the female and the size and position of these clasps fits only the right species. He may either fly in tandem with the female or bring her down to a stationary position by clasping the back of her head. The male flaps his wings and flexes his abdomen to indicate readiness to which the female responds. They may even curl to make their abdomens meet, in which case they form a heart (also known as the wheel position). Once the sperm is transferred, the male may leave or remain attached to the female to make sure that she does not mate further and in some instances till she oviposits the eggs either on water or by depositing them in plants with the help of her sharp ovipositor.

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The myth that electronic flash is harmful to eyes is simply hogwash, if not harmless paranoia. The duration of the flash is short, in the range of 1/1000 sec. Or less. The amount of energy that reaches the retina is miniscule. If there is any damage at all, lawyers would have sued the manufacturers of electronic flashes with class action suits that will result in the flash manufacturers discontinuing their products. If you stare into the sun, then you can do some real damage. You can see the kind of damage the sun can do, if you use a magnifying glass and focus the sun’s rays onto a piece of paper. It will char and even burn the paper, in much the same way that it will burn your retina. Even so, it takes quite a few seconds for the damage to occur. So, unless you have a flash that puts out as much light as the sun and you can make it last 10 seconds or longer, there is no damage.

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No the image in and of itself will not attract any negative energy.

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You need help lol

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There really isn’t a specific food that you could put in the box (it would be kind of difficult keeping live rodents and rabbits inside an owl box). The best way to attract owls is to place the box in a suitable location (in a stand of trees overlooking a field perhaps) at a suitable height (at least 10-12 feet off the ground). A thin layer of wood chips or shavings wouldn’t hurt. You could scrape the inside of the box to make it rough inside to better mimic a natural tree cavity and possibly give the owls and their young more grip (this is a critical step in making Wood Duck boxes so the fledglings can leave the box, and it’s not so critical to owls, but once again, it can’t hurt). I really can’t think of much more. Make sure you have some airflow through the box for ventilation.

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Then I don’t know why people say: “Love is Blind”. There may be some hidden significance. Only a learned person can clarify this difficult thing which is a bit confusing. Anyway I will consult my Master also when I next meet him.

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Lantana
hummingbird vine
butterfly bush

They seem to like these.

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I found any type red flowering plant will have them interested. Also hang a few liquid feeders will ensure there return. I hope this helps.

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You can buy a device that will turn a PET bottle (soda, water) into a feeder. Hummingbirds seem to be attracted to red and orange. However, I have never heard of them utilizing birdhouses to nest in.

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Hummingbirds like Cannas, especially the ones with the red flowers use to have cannas outside my window and got to see them very close up

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In the NY CT area hummingbirds generally arrive around May 1st but I’ve had them as early as mid April. They leave the area in September. This has been their schedule for the last 10 years or so.
They are very active in the early AM and at twilight. I do not use the red coloring sold in stores but just boil 2 cups of water for about 5 minutes, add 1/2 cup of sugar, mix and boil another minute or two and let cool. The mix is 4:1. Any surplus can be refrigerated but I make just what my feeders hold. You should change it every 10 days or so even if you don’t get any birds to keep it fresh. Seems once they find your source they’ll come back. I don’t know how well you’ll do in a city area. I’m in the suburbs with lots of trees and enjoy them every summer. Good luck.

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Bats are an ineffective choice for mosquito control!

“Attract bats to your backyard with a bat-roost box and your mosquito problems are over. Right? Wrong! Studies have shown that while bats devour a huge number of insects, mosquitoes are only a small part of their diet. A study of fecal pellets of bats in Indiana conducted throughout an entire summer revealed that the primary food items were beetles, moths, and leafhoppers. A very small number of mosquitoes (0.7%) were found in the stomachs of bats in another study. Bats are “selective opportunists” when it comes to their feeding habits, and they will take a variety of prey. Why take a scrawny little mosquito when you can have a fat juicy moth? Unfortunately, mosquitoes are just not a significant part of their diet. The evidence from stomach analysis and feces examination does not justify the hypothesis that insectivorous bats specialize on particular types of insects.”

Recently the Colorado Department of Public Health advised that bats can be infected with rabies, and that attempting to attract bats to your yard may increase the potential for human disease.

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They aren’t attracted by noise.

To try and attract them, put a light in the garden which will attract moths and the bats should come to feed on the moths (if there are any bats around.)
I have more bats around the street lamp at the front of my house than I have in the dark back garden.

I think the sound thing you mean is a bat detector box so you can listen to the bats when it is too dark to see them.

My bat detector came from these people.
Http://www.magenta2000.co.uk/acatalog/Bat_Detectors.html

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It very well could be the same bat returning. There are two factors to keeping them out.

One is checking and repairing the entry spot they use to get in.

The other is to provide an alternative because according to the experts, bats tend to return to a spot. Buy a bat box (also called a bat house) for him to hide away. Below is an online link plus you can call your local Lowes, HomeDepot or hardware store.

Be safe – there’s rabies and other diseases.

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We had one for many years that bats lived in for many years. We’ve since moved, but do want to get one put up this summer. Just do a search on “bat houses” and you’ll find all sorts of info. Listed below is one of the sites I found. Good Luck:o)

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Try using sound..some kina sonar intsrument..practise on the bats alredy in youre yard..see how it effects them..or other wise..get a peice of cardboard and cut out a shape of a bat..then get a strong torch light and shine it in the sky around 10 or 11 at night..while singing..nanananananananan

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The plant to get is Buddleia Davidii, or, the Butterfly Bush.
There is a web site called Butterfly Bush.com which may help you.

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Zennias draw butterflies and they are also cheap..quickly grow from seed and flowers in under 2 months

I have 1000′s of zennia seeds..i just scatter them on the ground and what comes up, comes up. I always have every color imaginable along with several different types of blooms

butterflies like sunflowers also and sunflowers have a small root system but on occasion you might find one with 1 deep root but most of the time when i pull my sunflowers up at the end of the season they come out of our clay ground very easy

HAPPY GARDENING!!!!!!

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Here are some helpful links

http://melanys.tripod.com/butterfly.htm

http://butterflywebsite.com/Articles/constructlist.cfm?type=butterflygardening

http://www.highcountrygardens.com/catalog/search/products/?query=butterfly

Walmart KMart Home Depot andLowe’ss Garden centers have complete seed mixes especially for butterflies and or humming birds.

I also recommend searching the internet for butterfly gardening.
Make sure you check a zone map to find what your climate is hospitalble to before chosing what plants you purchase.

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Flowers and plants that attract butterflies.

Butterfly Weed
Asclepias tuberosa Butterfly Bush
Buddleia davidii Butterfly Flower
Schizanthus wisetonensis
Butterfly Lily
Hedychium coronarium Butterfly Pea
Clitoria ternata Yarrow
Achillea millefolium
Columbine
Aquilegia Sea Pink
Armeria maritima Aster
Callistephus chinensis
Sea Holly
Eryngium bourgatii Coneflower
Echinacea purpurea Sweet Pea
Lathyrus odoratus
Chrysanthemum
Chrysanthemum Shasta Daisy
Chrysanthemum shasta Gloriosa Daisy
Rudbeckia hirta
Butterfly Orchid
Oncidium papilio Violets
Viola pedata Bee Balm
Monarda didyma
Blanket Flower
Gaillardia aristata Lilac
Syringa vulgaris Rabbitbrush
Chrysothamnus nauseosus
Cinquefoil
Potentilla fruticosa Burning Bush
Dictamnus albus English Lavender
Lavendula angustifolia

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The 2 most obvious are butterfly bush and butterfly weed. Then there is zinnia, verbena, lantana, black eyed susan, aster, cone flower, day lilies, marigold, hibiscus, phlox, blazing star and more zinnias. I only mention zinnias twice because the more you cut, the more they flower, and you will have enough for the critters and the house. The cactus flower zinnias are especially nice. Then there is the lilac tree, crabapple and the dogwood tree. And Candy Cardinal Viburnum. Be sure to plant the butterfly weed. It is the only host plant that they ( monarchs ) will lay their eggs on.

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Could be the dead bird/wildlife that drank the water and killed them.

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As a longtime avid birder, I would like to point out the American Birding Association’s principles of birding ethics, which advises: “Limit the use of recordings and other methods of attracting birds, and never use such methods in heavily birded areas, or for attracting any species that is Threatened, Endangered, or of Special Concern, or is rare in your local area…” http://www.naturephotographers.net/ethics.html

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You have lots of choices. If you can grow Alternate Leaf Dogwood, it seems that everybody comes to it in August. (Only time I have seen a Scarlet Tanager inches away from an Eastern Kingbird).
The proverbial High Bush Cranberry gets cleaned out in the spring by robins and waxwings and grosbeaks and such, after the fruit has dried down to raisins.
Serviceberry (Amelanchier) aka Juneberry is never left with hanging fruit in June.
Etc etc etc.

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Try sprinkling some on the ground all around the feeder

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The answers to your questions will depend on what birds you hope to see.

Cardinals, orioles and robins are not cavity nesters–they need trees and bushes to nest in. Bluebirds and swallows are cavity nesters, and need either old woodpecker holes or boxes. Wrens are also cavity nesters, but they, like bluebirds, need specialized boxes.

Food is the next question–unless you want to use feeders, you may want to use plants that provide food. Million Bells, Fuschia, Morning Glories–those will attract hummingbirds. Sunflowers will attract cardinals and bluejays. Robins, bluebirds and swallows are bug eaters, so feeders and plants will typically not attract them. Also consider plants, trees and bushes that will provide food over the winter (such as berries and seeds).

Layout will depend on your home and yard. For your own pleasure, you’ll probably want to lay out your garden so you can see the birds often from inside.

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Maybe dress more masculine and work out? Althso…dont talks likes thissss =]

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Rising shows immediately how you are and how you look at first glance. That is your first impression that others see.

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Have you realize it mainly guys saying it, not girls.
And the reason why guys say it is because they can’t get girls themselves and would like to put down another race of guys to make them feel better

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You need to get some dating advice. I did this when I was in high school, but hey, it’s never too late for that. If all of the women you have been dating didn’t really like you, you must have been doing something wrong. There is some great advice out there from experts who really know how to attract a woman, as lame as this may sound, their advice helped me a lot. Seriously, if you want to get this problem handled, check my resource.

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Lol Phil McCraken, good post. However I hope in the end our booties don’t stink!

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Go gain a lot of weight
and you will look like there wife’s
and then they will stop looking at you

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^Gary M^ She already said she does that. Attention to detail.

If a married guy is purposefully looking to have an affair, the last thing they do is wear a ring. But at the same rate, starting a relationship off by asking, “Are you secretly married?” is a buzz kill. You are showing immediate distrust and this will appear as extra unwanted baggage to the guy. Your best bet is to take it slow. This may help weed out the married guys who are just looking for a quick lay. Keep it traditional for a while and get to know him. Do not allow yourself to get emotionally invested in this person until you know him and honestly believe and trust his words. If after several dates you still feel distrustful due to past experiences, discuss prior relationships. Talk about your past difficulties with past dates and keep it light. Assure that he also talks about his experiences.

Past relationship that fail due to distrust can cause serious damage to a person’s esteem. While realizing you have to protect yourself from further repeats, remember to leave the baggage at the door. Stay confident. An abundance of great men are out there. Take it slow and throughly get to know the man. If he is married, he’ll slip up and show signs, but you will not have been overly emotionally invested at this point. You will find another fish!

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Yes, I love guys who are into fashion! I got a thing for the preppy/casual look. Brands like sean john or ralph lauren or h&m are nice. I love it when the guy is styling & looking fitted in his clothes. I really don’t like it when his clothing is sloppy or boring or to baggy.

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Yes. You are a fixer with repetition compulsion. You are trying to fix early parental objects from your family of origin- transferring the outcome to romantic partners in the hopes that you’ll finally be victorious. It is a facet of your personality that you wish to appear worthwhile to these people- but in the end their disorders win out- exhausting you from abuse. You’ll spend the majority of the relationship trying to control the abuse- until one or the other breaks away. Then you replace him.

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I think it was either 9 or 12.