
David asks…
When it comes to attracting men, if a smile goes a long way…..?
Why in the hell am I still single?!?!? I smile, look approachable, exude confidence, have intelligent conversation, and am nowhere near butt-ugly. So, what gives???

admin answers:
Maybe you aren’t very attractive. That smile BS was made up by some lonely girl, I’m sure.

Joseph asks…
How can I stop attracting men that treat me like a piece of meat!?
i dont show skin. i dress pretty conservative.

admin answers:
It might be where you’re meeting people. It’s not a great idea to date people you work with, so if you go to church, or have a hobby, or volunteer, make friends at those places where you already have something in common to work together on, so you can see how they treat others and what their values are.
You haven’t mentioned your age or how you look, but I know when I was young and “full-figured”, the most aggressive men were not the ones I liked. If someone treated me like I was dumb, or just a pretty face, I got away from them, since it was only down hill after that. Even though I was in the top of my class, I was treated like I was an idiot or looking for an “Mrs” in college because of how I looked. I also was shy, self-conscious, and had a low, quiet voice, so those only added to the idea that I was “dumb”, for some reason. It took a while for me to “speak up” and get the confidence to say what I did and did not want, but I was able to do it. I had to grow up fast, since I didn’t date much in high school, since we moved late in high school and it was one weird school (There wasn’t too many people I wanted to date there)!
Good luck, if you’re patient, you’ll meet someone who appreciates all of you, not just how you look, and thinks you’re the most wonderful woman in the world (I have!).

Robert asks…
Women attracting men with long hair/hairdressers don’t get it because often they are gay?
Women with long hair are a major attraction to straight men, but hair dressers always want to cut women’s hair. Is it because they are often gay??
Men and long hair on women whats the psychology?
Why is it that men (including myself) love long hair on girls?? I mean I know that long hair is HOT and SEXY but why do I feel that way??

admin answers:
Biologically speaking, the shape a woman’s hair in is tied directly to her youth and health. Long, healthy hair sends out the signal that the woman is healthy and young. Men are designed to be drawn to the healthiest women because it’s a good indicator of a woman’s fertility.
Aesthetically speaking, long hair covers up a multitude of flaws (face shape, whatever) that short hair shows off. A lot more women can pull off long hair, but very few can pull off short hair.

Thomas asks…
How does a woman stop attracting insecure,needy men?
Why are single men so needy and insecure? How does a woman stop attracting this type of man?

admin answers:
It’s tough because the more women become strong, proud, self-sufficient, and independent, the more men will be needy, clingy, and insecure, especially if she wants space, or always wants space.. Even the dark, mysterious, silent, strong, brooding women attract these types of men as well, same thing with logical, rational, and even unemotional women. Men will try to tie down independent, self-sufficient women. Another thing is, you can perhaps wear a wedding ring and show a desperate man that you’re married to another man.
Also, avoid chivalry from men you don’t know that much. Chivalry from strangers is dangerous, especially when an unfamiliar man holds the door open for you or offers to help you with things, for example. He might be a crazy, psychotic man.

Donald asks…
Women attracting men with long hair/hairdressers often don’t get it because they are gay?
Women with long hair are a major attraction to straight men, but hair dressers always want to cut women’s hair. Is it because they are often gay??
Men and long hair on women whats the psychology?
Why is it that men (including myself) love long hair on girls?? I mean I know that long hair is HOT and SEXY but why do I feel that way??

admin answers:
A lot of hairdressers are gay, and I had one once give me a pixie cut to rid me of my “damaged” hair. I felt like hiding for months. I think they just don’t care or want to impress themselves with their handiwork. Long, shiny hair is just pretty and feminine to a lot of men.
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