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Maybe you aren’t very attractive. That smile BS was made up by some lonely girl, I’m sure.

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It might be where you’re meeting people. It’s not a great idea to date people you work with, so if you go to church, or have a hobby, or volunteer, make friends at those places where you already have something in common to work together on, so you can see how they treat others and what their values are.

You haven’t mentioned your age or how you look, but I know when I was young and “full-figured”, the most aggressive men were not the ones I liked. If someone treated me like I was dumb, or just a pretty face, I got away from them, since it was only down hill after that. Even though I was in the top of my class, I was treated like I was an idiot or looking for an “Mrs” in college because of how I looked. I also was shy, self-conscious, and had a low, quiet voice, so those only added to the idea that I was “dumb”, for some reason. It took a while for me to “speak up” and get the confidence to say what I did and did not want, but I was able to do it. I had to grow up fast, since I didn’t date much in high school, since we moved late in high school and it was one weird school (There wasn’t too many people I wanted to date there)!

Good luck, if you’re patient, you’ll meet someone who appreciates all of you, not just how you look, and thinks you’re the most wonderful woman in the world (I have!).

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Biologically speaking, the shape a woman’s hair in is tied directly to her youth and health. Long, healthy hair sends out the signal that the woman is healthy and young. Men are designed to be drawn to the healthiest women because it’s a good indicator of a woman’s fertility.

Aesthetically speaking, long hair covers up a multitude of flaws (face shape, whatever) that short hair shows off. A lot more women can pull off long hair, but very few can pull off short hair.

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It’s tough because the more women become strong, proud, self-sufficient, and independent, the more men will be needy, clingy, and insecure, especially if she wants space, or always wants space.. Even the dark, mysterious, silent, strong, brooding women attract these types of men as well, same thing with logical, rational, and even unemotional women. Men will try to tie down independent, self-sufficient women. Another thing is, you can perhaps wear a wedding ring and show a desperate man that you’re married to another man.

Also, avoid chivalry from men you don’t know that much. Chivalry from strangers is dangerous, especially when an unfamiliar man holds the door open for you or offers to help you with things, for example. He might be a crazy, psychotic man.

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A lot of hairdressers are gay, and I had one once give me a pixie cut to rid me of my “damaged” hair. I felt like hiding for months. I think they just don’t care or want to impress themselves with their handiwork. Long, shiny hair is just pretty and feminine to a lot of men.

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You gave no background, but I’m guessing that somewhere in the past you screwed a large woman. You obviously don’t know this, but large women have a unique network they use which contains a database of men they have slept with. If you have banged a big chick, you are in this database for life. Other heffers can access this network and look you up in the database. Given that you probably nailed one, others will likely follow. I personally don’t see how your complaint has any merit. What you’re after is the vagina; essentially they all serve the same function so you shouldn’t concern yourself with the packaging around it.

Since you DO want to stop attracting large women, I think your only chance is to tell large women you’re gay. You may have to be refrain from any sexual activity to back up your claim, by that I mean if you meet a skinny woman you can’t nail her otherwise your lie will not work. If you work the gay angle long enough, chances are you could be taken out of the database and no longer be branded a chubby chaser.

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Personally, I think europpean men are creepy LOL!! But then again, I’m a teen and maybe it’s also because I’m europpean myself Im more attracted to black guys.

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I am sorry to say but alot of the time that is exactly what will happen. I’ve found myself doing its sometimes. Weight can play a really big role in attraction.

There are alot of really shallow girls out there.

But the ones that are worth your time are the ones who don’t care about your weight.

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It really is! Women love a man who is confident in himself. Aren’t you attracted to the women who are hot and know it? The key is not to be a cocky jerk. Do things like open doors, if there’s a problem with her meal, flag down the waiter and politely explain the issue. These show that you’re in control of the situation and don’t mind taking the lead, but they still focus on her needs. Confidently make it about her.

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Possibly.

If you have Venus, Sun, or Moon in Scorpio, it will be even more. Or if you have a good Pluto aspect to your Mars.

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Butterflies are attracted to the nectar of flowers, not the house. Plant an abundance of flowers butterflies love and you’ll be in business. Here’s a link to a fantastic nursery that specializes in butterfly & hummingbird garden plants.

Http://www.highcountrygardens.com

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Butterflies are naturally attracted to colours of flowers, such as yellows and pinks.

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I was just reading up on this the other day from “The Butterfly Book”.

Butterflies love the following nectar plants:
Bee Balm, Phlox, Marigolds, Catmint, Purple Cornflowers, Asters, Butterfly Bush, Liatris, Black-eyed Susans, Lavender, Queen Anne’s Lace, Globe Thistle, Heliotropem, Coreopsis and Lantana.

I’m sure that there are many more but this will get you started. It is so much fun !!

I hadn’t seen many Butterflies in the past few years but this year I have seen many and also different kinds.
Maybe they like my plants. ))

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1. If you want to attract Birds and Butterflies then you should grow plants that are favorite for them.
2.For attracting birds you should grow plants and trees that provide food and shelter to them.
3.As you ask for landscaping your outdoor huge garden, grow trees like Singapore Cherry (Muntingia Calabura). As this tree produces small fruits, Birds arrive for having their food. If the birds like the surroundings then they would also starts to reside in that place.
4.For attracting butterflies grow more flowering plants (preferably Red, Orange or any brightly coloured flowers). The flowers should also have more nectar.
5.If you grow plants which produce white coloured flowers then Moths will come to feed on the nectar during night.
6.Grow a few Milk weed plants (Asclepias). Female butterflies prefers this plant for egg-laying. Thereby more Butterflies are produced within your garden

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I have butterfly bushes – lots of butterflies and hummingbirds come to them. Don’t think they attract bees any more than other flowers do. Haven’t had any wasps and they’ve been in for 4 years. They are one plant that the deer around here have not attacked. In fact, I believe they are on the list of deer resistant plants – you can verify this by going to any of the horticultural sites – clemson university has a pretty good one.

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I use those cheap solar lights, like Malibu lights to attract bugs to areas which in turn attract the microbats.

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UltraSonic Device-repels or summons depending on the frequency.

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Bats are awesome. They eat an incredible amount of bugs, are harmless, and are great fun to watch at dusk when they start chowing down the bugs.

Kinda cute-ugly, in a Mick Jagger sorta way

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You would need to have suitable habitat. If you live near a small pond or marshy area where there would be plenty of food, it may be possible to attract them.

Go to the Bat Conservation International Website; they have good information and resources on bats, and on bathouses, if you choose to try one, specific to your area

Contrary to what the previous poster indicated, they do NOT recommend mounting them in a tree. The house will be too shaded and won’t be accessible. BCI has location information for mounting bathouses.

Www.batcon.org/

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ATT R AC T I N G B ATS – Bats have to find new roosts on their own. Existing evidence strongly suggests that lures or
attractants (including bat guano) will NOT attract bats to a bat house. Bats investigate new roosting opportunities
while foraging at night, and they are expert at detecting crevices, cracks, nooks and crannies that offer shelter from
the elements and predators. Bat houses installed on buildings or poles are easier for bats to locate, have greater
occupancy rates and are occupied two and a half times faster than those mounted on trees.
Unlike domestic animals, bats are wild and free-ranging. It is usually illegal to buy or sell them, and permits to
capture and possess bats are generally limited to researchers, zoos, wildlife rehabilitators and educational organizations.
Catching and relocating bats to new areas is, in any case, highly unlikely to succeed. Bats have strong homing
instincts, and once released into a bat house, will attempt to return to their former home area. Consequently,
placing bats in a bat house is usually futile and is not recommended. If a bat house remains unoccupied after two
full years, consider repositioning of modifying the house.
TE M PE R AT U R E S – Maintaining proper roost temperatures is probably the
single most important factor for a successful bat house. Interior temperatures
should be warm and as stable as possible (ideally 80º F to 100º F in
summer) for mother bats to raise their young. Some species, such as the big
brown bat, prefer temperatures below 95º F, while others, such as the little
brown bat, tolerate temperatures in excess of 100º F. Bachelor bats are less
picky and may use houses with cooler temperatures. The sides of wooden or
masonry structure are the best mounting sites, especially in colder climates,
because temperatures are more stable than for houses attached to poles.
Bat house temperatures are influenced directly by the exterior color,
compass orientation (east-, southeast-, or south-facing are generally good bets for single houses in most climates),
the amount of sun exposure, how well the house is caulked and vented, and the mounting and construction materials.
You may have to experiment to get the right placement and temperature range. You can always use a thermometer
taped to a pole to see if temperatures are suitable inside the bat house (check the chambers high and low,
and front and back).
The odds of attracting bats are very good for well-designed, well-built bat houses mounted according to recommendations
developed by the Bat House Project during 12 years of bat house research by BCI and its volunteer
Research Associates across the U.S., Canada and the Caribbean. Here are a few of our latest results:
•Bats inhabited an average of 60 percent of all reported bat houses (both good and bad houses and installations) in
BCI’s 1999 to 2001 annual surveys.
•Occupancy in rural areas was 61 percent, compared to 50 percent for urban and suburban areas.
•90 percent of occupied bat houses were used within two years (with 50 percent occupancy in the first year). The
rest needed three to five years for bats to move in.
•Tall designs like the multi-chamber (nursery) and rocket-style houses performed best in our surveys. For example,
80 percent of 123 houses with chambers at least 25 inches tall were occupied in 2000.

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Because of their safety, but after everything we realise that he doesn’t matter about “me/she” because he’s thinking about himself and that is absolutely awful. The narcissists can have a lot of women because they know how to play but they don’t know how to keep it.

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Because they mold into that “perfect man” to the women they are targeting. It’s like a Lure fish in the deep sea with the light out in front of it attracting mates. When the mate sees the light it can’t help but go to it…only to be swallowed whole.

They don’t see women as a living being but as an object that will give them affection and the attention they need.

Jar of Hearts- by Christina Perry is a great example.
If you ever meet a narcissist…run.

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You should of put it on your johnson.. Imagine the reaction to that…

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Women have casual sex with a very small group of men, over and over again. This group (maybe about 15% of all men) have so much sex that they never even worry about settling down. And that is okay with these girls, as they know that the men they screw are too attractive to commit. When it is time to commit, these women lower their physical standards (or as they rationalize it, they “mature” and look for traits other than physical attraction). Now they give nicer, more desperate men a chance (men that they were have rejected in the past), as they are far more likely to stick around. In fact, these poor souls are just happy to finally get positive female attention. If this nice guy gets jealous that his wife was a shallow whore in the past, he is simply being “immature”. Of course, only stupid men fall for this tripe. Women are shallow and driven by the same darwinian instincts that drive females of any species. Fact is, these losers are good enough to work for her intimacy, but not nearly attractive enough to get it for free like all them men in their pasts.

Another problem this posses is that average/ugly girls get inflated heads. They think that because a very attractive man f*cked and chucked them, suddenly they are “in that league”. In reality, most men would happily have casual sex with women they don’t consider worthy of a relationship. Since these girls get inflated heads, they go around rejecting men in their own league for years, wondering why all men are jerks (men who are too attractive to commit to them) or losers (average men).

“And I bet men actively look to give all the less atractive girls a nice night of pleasure when they are looking to get laid for the night?”
-YES men lower their physical standards for one night stands ALL OF THE TIME. Haven’t you even gone to a bar with male friends who want to hook up? They bang any mediocre looking girl who is willing to screw, despite how unbelievably hot their exes/next girlfriend could be. As long as the girl is not morbidly obese or repulsive (a small percent of women), it is fine.

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The guy with the successful career may be more timid about dating girls. His career probably comes first and the reason why its so successful. Not sure about the bum. I wouldn’t date someone who was a total bum like that. It’s not attractive.

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Joe you have to have suet feeding birds in the area before you can attract them. I haven’t the slightest idea of where you live. A lot of the suet feeders spend the summers farther north. When it becomes colder and food less abundant they move slightly south. When they find food they stay. A few of the suet feeders in the woodpecker family have started to move in around here. They come in just after the hummingbirds flee. The hummers are gone by Oct. 8. As they evacuate the area the others move down and replace them.

I haven’t seen my first Junco yet this year. I am setting up my Finch feeder and the Cardinal feeder. I put out a sparse suet feeder because I don’t want the fat to spoil in this heat. I’ll clean and refill it as needed.

If you really want a bunch of different kind of birds get a water heater for the bird bath. When all the other water is frozen they will flock to your bird bath. Gravel is hard to get when everything is covered with snow and ice. They need it to grind their food in their gizzards. Make sure you have some for them.

To get them to stay make your yard bird friendly. With cover. Have medium and small bushes for them to flee to. You already have a tree. I mound up a stick pile about 6ft x 4ft about 4ft high. Make sure they are loose so the birds can fly in and out. It gives them great cover and protection from cats and the snow.

In May, the wrens return and build their nest in the wood pile. I wait until the last batch is hatched and throw it in the shredder. As fall approaches I begin building a new stick pile for the coming seasons. The birds have to have access and a feeling of safety or they won’t come. Supply them with their needs and you may have to carry a stick out to get near the feeder so they don’t mob you.

Talk to some birders and they will tell you how to keep birds around all year.

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Two different web sites had this to say:

In Dunglass Dean there are woodcock and occasionally, tawny, barn, short- and long-eared owls; the young conifer plantations also attract goldcrest, redpoll and long-tailed tits.

Http://www.el4.org.uk/wb/pages/parish-volumes/oldhamstocks.php

some non-native species can enrich wildlife – the pines (mostly Black Pine – a species of southern Europe) around Park Campus attract Goldcrest and Coal Tit, two native bird species which probably would not otherwise occur here, and ground cover such as Cotoneaster can provide berries for native Thrushes. It is difficult to propose hard and fast rules concerning the benefits of native versus non-native species when it comes to planting, although where habitats have developed a high degree of naturalness (e.g., the shelterbelts) then native species ought to be given precedence.

So…. Could you plant a black pine or two in your yard? If your yard is too small… Do some gorilla gardening and plant some nearby in neglected properties.

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Put out food and they will come. Get some hanging feeders and put different varieties of seeds out. It may take a couple days but they will show up.

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I think a tall, Abe Lincoln-style hat would be a wonderful training tool for the birds, and as a bonus, will accent your new beard quite nicely. A couple of well-placed holes in the hat will encourage the birds to nest inside. Once they are comfortable, you can sprinkle a bit of birdseed in your moustache, and they will begin to rest and nest in your beard.

Once they know of your intense love for Dark Chocolate M&Ms, they will be more than happy to bring them to you. Since they will be right underneath your mouth, I assume the more doting birds may even feed the M&Ms to you.

I will do my part by hanging bird feeders shaped like your bearded head around my home. In time, the birds will flock to you out of instinct.

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First you need to find out what kinds of birds there are in your area. If you are looking to attract certain species, make certain they are in your area. Certain birds migrate and others do not. A good mixture of songbird food will attract most birds, and you can find this readily in Wal Mart or any other store that carries grain. (Farm and garden stores). Some birds like cardinals and orioles love oranges and other fruit, as well as sunflower seed. Finches love thistle seed. And cracked corn is always a good filler. Most larger birds will go for this. We feed the birds, and I have all kinds that come to the yard. I use a songbird mixture, and black sunflower seed. That keeps just about everyone happy. I put out oranges, pears and apples for my cardinals and jays and larger birds, and as soon as I see the orioles, always oranges. Also, pieces of bread with peanut butter. If you have hummingbirds in your area, hang a feeder near a window, and make your own nectar–1/4 C sugar to 1 C. Water. Bring this mixture to a rolling boil for about 3 minutes. Cool and stir in some food coloring, and you will have a showstopper. Hummies are very active, and love their nectar–the sweeter the better. I always add a little extra sugar. Have fun!

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If your feeders have been outside for months, the nectar inside is no longer good. The website listed below has a good recipe for making your own nectar for the feeders. Most feeders have red ON the feeder. If you bought one that doesn’t, just tie a red ribbon on the feeder. DO NOT use pre-packaged nectar with red dye in it, or add red dye – some bird experts say it’s harmful, some say they aren’t sure, so to be safe – just don’t use it.

1) Make sure the feeder is clean
2) NO RED DYE
3) Clean feeder and replace nectar at least once a week
4) Only fill half full until you have birds coming, so you don’t waste food in between cleanings
5) The more attractive flowers you have in your yard, the more birds you will ATTRACT, but the LESS they will take from your feeder. Hummingbirds always prefer natural nectar from plants over a feeder.

Good luck. Take good care of your feeder, don’t let the nectar go sour, you’ll have hummingbirds before long.

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All red flowers attract Hummingbirds. Here, we use plants AND feeders…use feeders with red “flower” parts …mix 1 cup sugar to 1 1/2 cup water. Change every week, otherwise, mold grows and hummingbirds will not touch it. Do NOT add red food dye to water…not necessary. If you hang the feeder, apply vaseline to wire to prevent ants from invading.
My yard is filled with the fiesty birds, they nest here, we have 4 young ones just out of nests, learning to hover and fly about. Neat to watch. Hummingbirds usually lay a clutch of 2 per tiny nest, eggs look like capsules.

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You need to give them time, they’ll find it, but sometimes it takes a couple of weeks.

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The hummingbirds are attracted to the area by the flowers there, not the hummingbird feeders. If you live in the city, I doubt if you can get them around a feeder. If you have any flowers around, just mix sugar 1part to 4 parts of water and heat to almost boiling to keep it from spoiling, let cool and put in a feeder and hang out of direct sunlight around some trees or flowers, they will find it. The storebought nectar doesn’t do anything except cost a lot., I live in NE Texas on a lake…..Nuf Said

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Red flowers seem to attract the little creeps. You can have all mine, I’m terrified of the bastards. They fly up behind me, make that giant hornet sound and when I jump up the threaten to pull out my eyes. I think they know this and torment me everyday. They seem to be having fun. Flowers are the key, feeders will help a lot.

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One will find that both men and women can be attracted by things other than love, affection and real friendship.

I am hardly a young woman, but I am very attractive for my age.Your question brought to recollection the time when a man who was trying to pick me up, told me that he had a lot of money. My response was as follows:

“I am not interested in your money. It means nothing to me and I am earning a very good living, by virtue of my expertise and skill as a technician.”

I could not care less, whether a man is “rich”.

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It’s depend on placement of Venus

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Here is a link to the detailed feng shui bagua chart, which, if you position yourself as instructed, will permit you to tell which corners or areas of your home deal with relationships and wealth. Use the colors associated on this chart, with those which would be best placed in the respective areas. Click through on each area to read more tips. Good luck!

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You open your Web + ask in german please, we will see. ###

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It is a crock of hoooey….

You “attract” money by working a job and not spending more than you make… It is REALLY that simple…

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Either you are not an American or you are too young to be using Yahoo!Answers. Your misuse of the American language is very sad, as is your misinformation about ‘dangerous birds.’

Birds do not kill people and there is no way to attract hawks or owls to a specific area or place. If you want to attract vultures, just leave dead deer carcasses laying around and let them decompose. That is what vultures eat, not people.

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When rats, mice, or any small animal comes into your home it’s for the same reason that you go home; they are seeking shelter, food and/or water. Usually there is a spike in rodent entry into a home during the colder winter months, but if truth be told, a foraging animal can come in any time of year.
, you can have a load of unexpected guests running around in no time.

Food Habits
Generally speaking, house mice eat many different types of food, though they prefer foods high in fat, protein or sugar, such as bacon, chocolate, candies, butter, and nutmeats. In the absence of these food types, their next preferred foods are seeds and grain, however they are not hesitant to sample new foods. A single mouse eats only about 3 grams of food per day (8 pounds per year) but because of their habit of nibbling on many foods and discarding partially eaten items, mice destroy considerably more food than they consume. Unlike Norway and roof rats, they can get by with little or no free water, although they readily drink water when it is available. They obtain their water needs from the food they eat. An absence of liquid water or food of adequate moisture content in their environment may reduce their breeding potential.

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Did you take acid?, have you got any left?

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Have the birds been able to get into the attic or into some other sheltered area for nesting. They like to roost in a covered location like lofts, steeples, vents, and under eaves. They shelter like this to avoid owls and falcons that hunt pigeons on wing from overhead. If you can find where they are roosting at night you can put wire mesh up blocking access until they leave. Or drape an area with bird netting whatever seems easiest to block the birds.
To get them off the roof is harder. If they nest elswhere but come in they must be foraging for food nearby. Try using Bird Proof to repel them. Meanwhile see if you can find where they are foraging for grain or seeds. Removing their food source will drive them away also.
Http://www.bird-x.com/products/bproof.html

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Yes it is highly toxic to birds, but I doubt if they would take it like cats or dogs, which are attracted to it by the smell and will lap it up, leakage from cars unless it were to gather in pools a bird would not drink it.

But it should always put into a container and never washed down the drains as then it could get into a water course where birds could drink it along with other animals

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What you are thinking of is a bog garden. I’ve built a few of them and they are easy and inexpensive to do. They are usually built using flexible pond liner to keep the area flooded.

Rather than go into detail here, I’d suggest going to this forum….

Http://forums.gardenweb.com/forums/bog/

Very helpful people here, willing to share experience.

PS – they also attract mosquitoes, keep that in mind.

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Insects eat different things research the food for each type. If you use a plastic bottle with the top cut off and inverted into it, you can make a trap. For yellowjackets, some raw meat in the bottle will attract them. You will need to be able to kill the insects maybe a spray. A banana peel should get fruit flies, sugar or syrup will get you houseflies. Dragonflies are predators, they eat waterborne insects do some research. Good luck.

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A log pile in a quiet corner is a brilliant idea. Just leave it alone and insects and things like frogs and toads will live there.
Also don’t tidy up to a certain extent. Dried grasses and seed heads left over the winter act as a shelter to insects and provide food for birds.
Put food out for the birds in the winter and spring.
Also a bird bath will get them flocking in.
Dragonflies need a pond or similar to lay eggs and for their larvae to develop. They also need reeds or similar to the larvae to climb out of the water.

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Butterflies are generally very difficult to keep as pets. While they thrive during the warmer spring and summer they are difficult to get through their entire lifecycle. A zoo near where I lived kept trying for several years before stopping. Many people are content with keeping a few hardy species for a few months each year. Dragonflies need water and vegetation while butterflies are specifically attracted to certain plants. Butterflies especially like glucose water. I suggest researching what foods your butterflies like and planting those plants.

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They are feeding on gnats or other insects emerging from the grass..garbage has nothing to do with them, they are just helping you out.

There eggs are laid in water, not grass or soil