Your Questions About Attracting Owls

Paul asks…

guys: boobs or butt?

which are you attracted to most?

big/medium/small breasts?
big/med/small asses?

AND
an equally important question:

just how many licks does it take to get to the tootsie center of a tootsie roll pop?
(i dont know if i can trust that owl to tell me the truth anymore…)

cheers.
sleepless monday nights ftw.

admin answers:

YOU!! Sorry couldn’t help it. Um I dont care really…u can be flat with a pretty face and I’m game. I care mostly about face, smile, and personality really.

Ken asks…

Another Dream Interpretation?

Okay for a while now I have been incredibly sexually attracted to ….. Dare I say it ….. Pee Wee Herman. I know I know okay so anyway I have wanted to have a dream about him for a long time but of course I can’t control my dreams.But last night I finally did but it was weird….Okay here goes.

I’m in a space ship in space with some pilot and my best friend(who doesn’t like pee wee the way I do) and we go around the universe looking at these magnificent things gorgeous beautiful stuff anyway we land on a planet with a forest on it and there are A LOT of leaves on the ground so me and my friend climb up on this thing (the pilot left somewhere ) so we see this house (its my dad’s house I live with my grandma) SO we go in and pee wee is in there and of all things we play poker.After a while an owl comes and he plays poker with us off and on.Eventually Pee Wee said to the owl “You can have some of my blood.” the owl said “Are you sure your okay with it?” so the owl sucked blood from Pee Wee’s neck. It left this large pimple thing that went away after a while.(I hate vampires they don’t turn me on!) So later I say to to Pee Wee (these are the first words I have said to him) I say “You can suck blood from me.” he says no at first but I insist and he does it on my arm (I’m getting turned on just thinking about it. Vampires only turn me on if Pee Wee is the vampire) So it leaves two little holes where he sucked the blood and it’s a little bloody and I make sure nothing touches my arm and I’m on cloud nine right now cause Pee Wee Herman just F***ing touched me let alone sucked my arm. so a little bit later I leave (my friend doesn’t know he did this) and I leave the front door and I’m on my street but I don’t seem to notice so I start to walk across the street and a voice says “Great cousins Lyndsay’s gone bifocal.”(I guess the voice says this cause in the back of my mind I have a weird thought like “great captain obvious has gone bilingual” that is one of my actual thoughts ) oh I forgot before I left the house I got on the porch and there was snow and I got on my back and spun because I was so happy and he looked at me like I was weird. Back to where I was.Okay I was crossing the street and I saw my cousins she is wearing bifocals and a voice says “Great cousin Lyndsay’s gone bifocal” I ignore the voice and she crosses the street with me to my grandma’s house we go inside and my best friend is in there and my cousin says “I can see!” and points to things and says what they are (it really does get quite annoying) so my best friend says “Whats that?” and points to my arm and I blush and try to hide it and she says “No let me see!” so she see’s it and says “Did he suck your arm?” and I say “Yes.” ( at this point I’m still super excited that he sucked my arm. Also Pee Wee didn’t look like a vamp while sucked my blood he just looked like his self) after that I wake up (I’m half asleep when I wake up so I realize I’m laying on the arm that got sucked,my right arm and I get off it try to preserve where he sucked it then I realize he never did)

Yes I think Pee Wee is sexy and I loved this dream just not the waking up part. But tell me what it means :D plz ( P.S I’m 12 and yes I know what he did and why people hate him but it’s more of a turn on for me)

admin answers:

Hi, here are the symbols that I see.

To be in a space ship this is something that is unfamiliar to you. Can also symbolize a higher awareness. And also your ability to take off, soar to new heights and reach your goals.
The friend can just be in a dream playing as themselves or can symbolize a particular quality the two of you share. Can also symbolize a part of yourself that you like,
Forest is the mysterious, the unknown. Can’t see the forest for all the trees.
Trees is Family. Branching out. Going back to your roots.
Your dad’s house is your ideas, behaviors (good and bad) that began there. Could mean a need or desire to be taken care of just like you were back then. May indicate you are behaving childishly. Could be a reminder NOT to behave as you did back then nor to treat others as you were treated then.

When a celebrity makes a guest appearance in our dreams, he or she will symbolize our own star quality, or ability to”perform” and shine in life or in a particular situation.
Pee Wee is a comedian for children, but got kicked off the show after being caught doing the nasty..lol. You were playing poker with him, do you need to make room to “play” around with a certain decision? Or are you feeling heavily “criticized” about something you are saying or doing?
The qualities you associate with him just might be qualities YOU posses. Your star-studded dreams are telling you that you too are a star in your own right. As you venture down the red carpet of life, keep your head held high and lt your inner star shine!

The owl is the wiser older self, your ability to soar, to break free.
Blood is your energy, your life force, that which keeps you going.
You walked across the street..you are side tracked. Off the beaten path of life. And non conformity.
Porch..and houses symbolize the self, therefore porches symbolize extensions of the self.
Back is your strength, your ability to carry a heavy burden. Can also mean you need to or you have put something behind you, turn your back on something/someone.
You need to focus your attention on some things in your life and look closer.

Hope that helps, and good dreams to you…:)

Helen asks…

Would you buy this book?

Dueteronomy 14: Edible foods

IN the bible these are the foods that you are allowed to eat:

The ox (The mature believer who does what is right)
The sheep (who listen to God’s voice and follows him)
The goat (Who possess spiritual authority)
The deer (Who exemplifies virtue and moral goodness)
The gazelle (Who compares you to others)
The roebuck (The calm) ? reddish deer adapted to cold environments
The wild goat (Those ugly in their own eyes)
The Ibex (The confused and misguided)
(A goat that has very round curvaceous horns that are extremely long)
The Antelope (Basic transparent emotions)
Mountain Sheep (The pure)

Any animal that chews the cud and divides the hoof cleft in two is clean and ediable

Any attitude that divides its responsibilities evenly between God and man; lives by conscience and fully agrees with God’s will after attempting to do some of it is clean.

The Pig divides his responsibilities evenly between God and men, lives by conscience but does not fully agrees with God’s will after doing part of it because he is stingy about sharing God’s grace with others.

Out of those who divide the hoof and chew the cud, you should not eat these:

The camel: somebody who can go a long time without love
The hare: somebody who is wild and rambunctious
Rock Badger: Somebody who is cynical and selfishly adequate
Because they receive God’s will fully after digesting it, but do not share their responsibilities equally between God and men… (They are humanistic cynics who do not see or perceive God’s glory)

You may eat anything that has fins and scales out all all the dwell in the sea:

Of all that live dwell among one’s emotions:

Scales: Any personality that has weights, balances and measurements
Fins: Any life that relies on love to sustain itself

Any personality that does not have a weight, a balance and a measure and does not rely on love to sustain itself, you shall not digest. It is unclean for you.

Of all respectable social authorities you may eat, but you must not eat this:

Eagle: Somebody who will use their superior wisdom to scrutinize your emotions and judge you
Vulture: Somebody who neglects their emotioal welfare by sacrificing their time and energy in unprofitable ways
Osprey: Somebody who will manipulate your emotional nature to their advantage
Buzzard: An unfriendly person who uses people
Raven: Somebody that is wicked
Ostrich: Somebody that’s stuck up
The nighthawk: Somebody that’s condescending towards others for amoral or immoral reasons
The Sea gull: Somebody who scatters unpleasant burdens everywhere that they go.
Hawk: Somebody who worries a lot
The little owl: somebody who believes he is mature when he is not
The great owl: Somebody who believes he is superior because of his experiences
Desert owl: Somebody who has reached intellectual maturity without emotional understanding
Water hen: Somebody who doesn’t have a firm moral foundation
Carrion Vulture: Somebody who preys on your lack of spirituality
Cormonant: Somebody who relies on their image to attract people rather than their personality
Stork: Somebody who tries to claim possession of your mind
Heron: Somebody who distracts you
Hoopoe: A superficial person with no character
Bat: Somebody who doesn’t see or understand
Winged insects: All weak people that seek positions of honor are considered unclean

You must not eat anything that dies of itself, you may give it to alien residing in your towns for them to eat, or you may sell it to a foreigner.

You must not devour unclean attitudes, emotions, or authorities that no longer exist in judgment and hostility, let the repentance bring flavor and life to the pagan that you are given opportunity to witness to, or you may teach your own repentance to a foreigner. A holy person does not judge somebody who has changed

admin answers:

What part of this is a question?

John asks…

Do you have an animal totem?

So I always thought that the cat and the owl were my totems, but the last couple of weeks I have been doing some research and meditations on totems. I also read Ted Andrews book ‘Animal Speak’. I have dreamed of a bird that look like in my dreams an ‘OWL’. Turns out, and I have come to believe that this was actually a ‘HAWK’. Until this past year, I had only seen a hawk 2 or 3 times in my life, but just this year he has come probably more than 30 times, always bringing good news that evening or the next day. I did a meditation, where I came closer to a bird from behind, and when I was directly behind him, he turned his face around to look at me. I though it was a Falcon at first, with his spotted belly, but then did some research, and found out that falcons were no where near my area, but the hawk was. The hawk looks very much like the bird I have been seeing this past year. In Ted Andrews book he mentions, when the Hawk comes in your life he is there to stay as a Totem. It’s very strange though, because this past year I have really done a lot. I got my nurses aid liscense, got a new car, were buying a house, and I’m going back to school.

I also had read in his book that usually your totem is a wild animal, but can come in the form of a domestic animal during childhood. So I began to do some more research. Looking and learning that of wild cats.

If you know of the norse goddess Freya, her chariot is pulled by a lynx type cat, and wheres a helmet of a Falcon or “hawk” wings. (This is the goddess who I have become attracted to) and I honor the most. So I looked up on the Lynx. Also in Ted Andrews book he explains that you can be a lot like that of your totem, and when I was reading up on the lynx, It sounded JUST LIKE ME.

I also found that the hawk can live up to 14 years. The 14th Tarot card is the Temperance. Temperance being my life path card.

So I have went from the cat and owl, to the lynx and hawk. Very similar of course, but I feel a certain peace after these confusing and long discoveries.

Has anyone else had something like this happen to them?

*Love*Light*

admin answers:

It is not surprising that you had a connection with the cat and owl…
Native American tradition provides that each individual is connected with nine different animals that will accompany each person through life, acting as guides. Different animal guides come in and out of our lives depending on the direction that we are headed and the tasks that need to be completed along our journey.

Native beliefs further explain that a totem animal is one that is with you for life, both in the physical and spiritual world. Though people may identify with different animal guides throughout their lifetimes, it is this one totem animal that acts as the main guardian spirit.

With this one animal a connection is shared, either through interest in the animal, characteristics, dreams, or other interaction.

Mandy asks…

Ipod shuffle game!?:))?

Put your iPod/iTunes or WMP or whatever you use on shuffle, and which ever song comes up, that is the answer to the following questions, and NO CHEATING please:).

What’s your name? Someone’s Missing-Mgmt
What do you like to do for fun? Ripple-Grateful Dead
What are you afraid of? Incense and Peppermints-Strawberry alarm clock
What kinda people are you attracted to? In My Life-Beatles
Whats your style? I just can’t wait to be king-Lion King
What do you think about? The Christmas Waltz-She&Him
What’s your goal in life? Happy-Never Shout Never
What do you dream about? No One’s gonna love you-Band of Horses
What kinda food do you like? Honey-Spacemen 3
Where do you live? Two-The Antlers
What do you do when you wake up in the morning? Speak Now-Taylor Swift
What do you do on vacation? The Yacht club-Owl City
What is your job? Brian Eno-mgmt
If Obama called you on the phone what would you talk about? We don’t care-The Mangement(young mgmt, wow theyre coming up a lot:) )
If you were the president of the United States? Hold My Hand-Roland Albertson
What’s your motto? Seashell-SeaBear
Will I get Far In Life? Happier-A fine frenzy
What Is my Best Friend’s Theme Song? A book like this-Angus & Julia Stone
What is/Was High School Like? What you know-Two door cinema club
How Was Yesterday? Bad Day-Darwin Deez
What is my Love Life Like? Heroin-The Velvet Underground
What will my Parents Say To me on my wedding? The Cold swedish winter-Jens Lekman
What Song Will They Play On My Funeral? Minnesota, WI-Bon Iver
How Does The World See Me? Simple Math-Manchester Orechestra
What do My Friends Really Think Of Me? Blue-Dear Luna
What is the World Keeping a Secret Of Me? Three coins in a fountain-Frank SInatra
How Do I make Myself Happy? Silver Springs-Fleetwood Mac
What Should I Do With My Life? Oops! I did it again
Will I Have Children? All We ever wanted was everything-Bauhaus
What is Good Advice? Helplessness Blues-Fleet Foxes
What does everyone Else Think Of My Current Life? I can’t Explain-The Who
What Type Of Men/Women Do I like? Believe Me-Ellie Goulding
Where Will I Live? Pennyroyal tea-Nirvana
What Will My Dying Words Be-Future Reflections-MGMT
Will I live happily ever after? Rainbow Veins-Owl City
What did you think of this test? I think I’ll call you mine-Parlours
:)

admin answers:

What’s your name? Again- Flyleaf
What do you like to do for fun? That should be me- Justin Bieber
What are you afraid of? Last Chance- Nicki Minaj ft. Natasha Beddingfield
What kinda people are you attracted to? Vampiresliveinmybrain- eatmewhileimhot!
Whats your style? Lovely- Breathe Carolina
What do you think about? Stuck in the moment- Justin Bieber
What’s your goal in life? Here we go again- Demi Lovato
What do you dream about? On the edge- Tokio Hotel
What kinda food do you like? Somebody to love- Justin Bieber
Where do you live? Ohio is for lover- Hawthorne Heights
What do you do when you wake up in the morning? Welcome to the Family- A day to remember
What do you do on vacation? Of sound and fury- LoveHateHero
What is your job? Screw the Standard- eatmewhileimhot!
If Obama called you on the phone what would you talk about? Thank you for the venom- My Chemical Romance
If you were the president of the United States? Gold digger- Kanye West
What’s your motto? All you ever knew- Eyes set to kill
Will I get Far In Life? When I come around- Green day
What Is my Best Friend’s Theme Song? Dangerous- Kardinal Offishall
What is/Was High School Like? The listening- Eyes set to kill
How Was Yesterday? Beside you- Marianas Trench
What is my Love Life Like? Blue burns orange- Hawthorne Heights
What will my Parents Say To me on my wedding? If I leave- A day to remember
What Song Will They Play On My Funeral? Dark Fantasy- Kanye West
How Does The World See Me? Risen- Eyes set to kill
What do My Friends Really Think Of Me? Celebrity Status- Marianas Trench
What is the World Keeping a Secret Of Me? Save me- Nicki Minaj
How Do I make Myself Happy? The price we pay- A day to remember
What Should I Do With My Life? I am on your side- Hawthorne Heights
Will I Have Children? So far so great- Demi Lovato
What is Good Advice? Im not okay (I promise)- My chemical romance
What does everyone Else Think Of My Current Life? Motivation- Sum 41
What Type Of Men/Women Do I like? If it means a lot ot you- A day to remember
Where Will I Live? Ring a ling- Black eyed peas
What Will My Dying Words Be? I shake I move- LMFAO
Will I live happily ever after? Did it on’em- Nicki Minaj
What did you think of this test? Yes- LMFAO

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Your Questions About Attracting Birds

Sandy asks…

I want to attract birds into my new garden.?

I am moving into a brand new property soon which has a small/medium size westerly facing back garden with two walled areas. I have a lovely blank canvas to work with which will be turfed and will have a small patio. Any ideas of the best trees, shrubs etc to plant to attact birds into the garden. The house is in Hook Hampshire England. Thank you.

admin answers:

One word for you….patience. You will need it when starting with blank canvas for a yard.
Does your neighbors or neighborhood have much tree cover or habitat? If not ….you will have to lure birds to your yard with a couple things.
A quick remedy…running water. Get a small fountain or running bird bath and the sound of water will get birds attention and also be attractive focal point in your yard.
Another thing to consider…bird feeding can be messy. If you plan to have birdfeeding station with feeders be aware the area underneath will be littered with seeds debris and bird poop. It will not be pretty. But what you can do is landscape an area just for the birds. I made an small area in corner of yard…put down black plastic or landscape fabric…covered it with rocks of different sizes or just smaller pea gravel rock. That way when it does get messy you can just hose it off.
As far as plant or tree material to plant….look for 1 or 2 decent sized trees…just to add cover for the birds and give them a place to perch. They need a vantage point to decide if it’s safe or not….they won’t just swoop in for quick bite. If not trees….trellis’s also work great and you can run vines up them for quick cover. Also another quick fix…use big pots of annuals or ornamental grass around yard. Flowers will draw in bugs and flying insects….which the birds will be drawn to

Once you determine if you are going to put feeders out it will take a couple weeks or months for birds to arrive….so that is where is patience comes in. With water, habitat and feeding you will keep birds in your yard.

Here are a couple websites that lists native plant material for you to consider:

http://www.rspb.org.uk/wildlife/wildlifegarden/

http://thehowzone.com/how/Attract_Birds/2

Here is a couple more on how to keep birds in your yard:

http://www.wikihow.com/Attract-Birds

http://www.helpfulgardener.com/design/2003/bird.html

Also visit your local nursery or greenhouse ….they can answer any questions and show you what plants and trees grow best in your area.

Good luck!!

Joseph asks…

What else could I do to attract more humming birds?

I live in Northern Utah. We have tough droughts each year. I have some greenery and tree’s. I have also made a place with plants . But somewhat what types of flowers can you plant that would attract more Birds in my back yard? I would appreciate any answer.
I have to attractive humming bird feeders on my Patio. They are hanging underneath the Patio roof. I love watching them. Yesterday, I had a very tiny Baby one. It was beautiful. I also prepare my own hummingbird syrup.

I make it out of 2 qrts sugar towards 4 qrts water and cook it off to disolve the sugar.

admin answers:

Red, yellows, and purples. In your neck of the woods, I’d plant some hardy salvias and monarda. Both should be hardy enough to grow as perennials there. For annuals, go with zinnias, petunias, nicosiana, and the less hardy salvias. You might also want to plant some morning glories, they really like those both for the flowers and for cover. I had great success with those in Central Nevada, which is pretty close in climate to where you are.

Chris asks…

how to attract birds to my garden?

id love to see loads of birds in my garden, especially titss

admin answers:

Careful you might end up with thrush! ;)

Donna asks…

What would you like to ask?How do I attract birds to slam into my garage door window?

I want a new window and want my insurance to pay for it. How do I attract brids to keep hitting it until it breaks?

admin answers:

Stand inside it and act like you are nuts?

Laura asks…

How do I attract birds to a bird house?

I have had a birdhouse out for awhile now and don’t see any results. i have a bird bath, bird-feeder, and a bird nest material supplier. Any ideas on location, and other key attractors?

admin answers:

Not all species of birds use birdhouses – some just make their nest in a tree or on the ground. Those species that do use birdhouses each have their own preferences about the location, size of the house and the size of the entrance hole.

Sometimes you can luck out by putting up any old birdhouse, since some species aren’t as picky, but you will be more likely to successfully have birds use a birdhouse if you first identify what types of birds you have in your neighborhood and then put up a house that is likely to fulfill the preferences of one or more of those species.

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Your Questions About Attracting Owls

Ken asks…

Will rate you the best if you help me on a test?

Thanks, there was 100 question these 20 i dont know the answer too.

1.
Until 1853, the _____ Territory included the land south of the 49th parallel.
A) Washington
B) Northwest
C) Canadian
D) Oregon

2.
The Convention of 1818 also stated that Great Britain and the U.S. would jointly share the Oregon Country for _____ years.
A) 30
B) 50
C) 10
D) 15

3.
America’s eleventh President, James K. Polk, was famous for his expansionist goals and campaign slogan “_____ or fight.”
A) 54°40’
B) 49°40’
C) 52°40’
D) 48°40’

4.
Which President signed the omnibus bill that admitted Washington to the United States as the 42nd state?
A) Harrison
B) Polk
C) Jefferson
D) Cleveland

5.
What was the population requirement for a territory to apply for statehood?
A) 100,000
B) 200,000
C) 125,000
D) 250,000

6.
When did Washington finally gain statehood?
A) February 8, 1853
B) November 29, 1847
C) November 11, 1889
D) November 1, 1905

7.
The only territorial and state capital in the history of Washington has been located in _____.
A) Seattle
B) Yakima
C) Federal Way
D) Olympia

8.
_____ and silver mining were responsible for attracting people into several areas of Washington during the latter part of the nineteenth century.
A) Diamonds
B) Coal
C) Gold
D) Copper

9.
Frederick _____ was the region’s largest private land owner and the founder of the nation’s largest forest-products company.
A) Douglass
B) Weyerhaeuser
C) George
D) Hume

10.
Fertile semiarid farmlands throughout the Columbia Plateau’s major river valleys became productive agricultural fields as a direct result of _____.
A) fertilizers
B) daylight savings
C) irrigation
D) farm vehicles

11.
Gold rushes cause miners to move into remote areas to extract gold. The California Gold Rush really aided the growth of Seattle, Washington.
A) True
B) False

12.
The _____ was an aggressive, violent labor union that had considerable influence with miners and wood workers in Washington during the early-twentieth century.
A) American Federation of Labor
B) Congress of Industrial Organizations
C) Washington Central Labor Council
D) Industrial Workers of the World

13.
The completion of Grand Coulee Dam and the use of the glacially formed coulees allowed the _____ Basin Project to be developed in the mid-twentieth century.
A) Snake
B) Columbia
C) Yakima
D) Hood

14.
The _____ project was a top secret project to build the atom bomb during World War II.
A) New York
B) Roswell
C) Area 51
D) Manhattan

15.
What type of work did the Civilian Conservation Corps perform?
A) Built roads, trails, and parks
B) Painted murals
C) Protected the coast of Washington from invasion
D) Provided child care for the wealthy

16.
Executive Order #9066 was designed to _________.
A) Provide new economic opportunities for the poor
B) Encourage women to enter the workforce while many men were fighting in the War
C) Detain all residents of Japanese descent living west of the Cascades
D) Mandate all manufacturers to supply goods used for military operations

17.
The largest hydroelectricity dam built on the Columbia River is the massive _____ Dam. With its recently completed third powerhouse, it has a capacity of producing more than six million kilowatt hours.
A) Snake River
B) Dalles
C) Bonneville
D) Grand Coulee

18.
Environmentalists and the timber industry have been at odds over the plight of the _____ and its habitat requirements of original growth forestlands.
A) Javan Hawk-Eagle
B) Northern Spotted Owl
C) Great Indian Bustard
D) Southern Mudhen

19.
Washington’s largest wood products company is _____.
A) Weyerhaeuser
B) Canfor
C) International Paper
D) Boise Cascade

20.
All of the following characterize the Palouse Hills region of Washington EXCEPT
A) The Touchet, Walla Walla, Grand Rhonde, and Tucannon rivers cut deep gorges through this region.
B) Summer in this region tends to be very hot and dry with little or no moisture.
C) Steppe grasses and sagebrush cover most of this region.
D) Its most important physical feature is Puget Sound.

admin answers:

E) who cares
F) Is any of this BS relavent to my education or life itself . . . NO so get phucked im not doing your questions
G)All of the above

F) Is my answer to all of them

Lisa asks…

If you are ugly,does that mean you will always be alone?

Hi :) I’m fifteen and I have dark blonde hair and greeny/blue eyes.I know looks aren’t everything,but for someone to love you,they have to be attracted physically at first,before they meet the real you.But if your ugly,then they wont want to get to know you and go for the prettier girls.I know i’m nothing to look at,and i will never be called hot,but now i’m terrified that i’ll end up alone and unlovedI want to be attracteed to the guy too,but i end up liking the cute guys type which wouldnt takje a glance at me. Am i just gonna have to settle with the first guy who lies me even if i dont like them?? i’ve only had one date aqnd two guys like me but i was so shy and stuttered that they lost interest they want confident loud girls. .My eyes are a weird light green and round like an owls and small.My skin colour is very pale and i have dry skin.I have quite plump lips too that i think look horrible.I’m only 5’1 too,so i’m short.The only thing i have going for me is that i’m not too fat or too skinny,so this proves i’m a butter face.My mom says i’m pretty and so does my auntie’s cousins etc..but Your meant to say your relatives are pretty aren’t you? my friends say i am,but they cant hardly say your ugly can they? so they re all lying,so it counts for nothing.x

admin answers:

Your looks are not your problem here its your low self esteem thats the turn off for the guys. You have a confidence problem and it shows. People (guys included) think if you don’t think much of yourself why should they…they figure you know yourself best. I have seen girls who are not pretty and have a weight problem get married so it’s really all about attitude and personality and how you present yourself to others. Perhaps you could work on your self esteem with some counciling and work on projecting outwardly a happier more confident attitude and you will have your pick of the boys. You are only 15 you have plenty of time. As a side note I can say I have witnessed several not so pretty girls becomming real beauties later in life. You are still growing and changing but what you really need to focus on right now is loving yourself just as you are.

Mark asks…

Why is my husband acting like this?

The past few months, my husband won’t cuddle w/me, he doesn’t talk to me like he used to. He’s totally engrossed in his computer, rdg. his books, and he sleeps most of the time. We’re both night owls, so we sleep much later than others, and I get that; but, when he is up, he doesn’t do much, nor does he clean much anymore. We’ve only been married for ~5 mo. We used to talk about everything, play Scrabble, laugh, etc. He doesn’t get dressed much after getting up & won’t even comb his hair, which is long. I don’t feel like having sex with him much anymore (some of it is my meds, I admit), but I don’t at all feel attracted to someone who sleeps, won’t help, won’t even get dressed…then says, “That’s not true.” I also knew beforehand that he had a problem with masturbating all the time. I understand a guy doing it once in awhile & have no problem with that, but this is all the time, even when we had sex a lot, which has also been making me not want to have sex. I know he has depression (as well as I), and he supposed to be getting help, but it takes forever before he’ll do anything about it or anything else. I know for sure he’s not cheating on me- he’s much too honest, and I really respect him for that.
Even if I change my hair, put on make-up (which I don’t do very often) and lose weight, he rarely says anything. I’ve been trying to lose weight for almost 3 wks, and I’ve lost some weight and toned up. He acts as if nothing has changed. I’m so tired of him saying, “That’s not true,” when it all is. What is going on? I really feel betrayed, and I feel I’m becoming/have been getting cold towards him. Even though he says so, I feel he isn’t caring about my feelings like he used to. We used to be best friends…now I feel like there’s just a guy in my home. Men, any ideas? (or women). Thanks. :(
I have tried talking to him honestly and openly about all of this. I don’t get much, or he’ll do something for a couple days full force, than quit again, making me feel like the single mother I was.

admin answers:

No offence, but maybe he regrets getting married? He sounds a bit depressed and like he just doesn’t give a sh*t about life anymore.

Steven asks…

What animal is biting the heads off of my chickens at night, and what attracts them?

OK so last night my mom heard this noise when she was in bed last night, and this morning we found a few chickens with their heads bitten off, and the rest of their bodies were left there. This morning also my mom found a hole in the chicken coop where the animal could’ve gotten in. We think its a weasel, or an owl, but we don’t know. What animal could this be? Also tonight im going to be sitting on top of my chicken coop camoflauged in. What’s the best camo to use so this animal doesn’t see/attack me? What attracts this animal so I could get it near me? Thanks so much!

admin answers:

El chupicabra

Richard asks…

What would you do?

What would you do or should you do or suggest if….

You had a forbidden attraction towards someone not of your taste, too old for you, unethically unethical because he/she is your instructor or boss or co-worker? And even married?

It all started when he visually lusted after you, thinking you’d not notice but oh yeah you did, you are like an owl, you notice even the most subtle things.

You find yourself attracted to that person and always thinking about him/her you want to stop, you killed off the forbidden feelings, you even dreamed about him/her but not anymore(it was a forbidden dream).

You admire him/her respect him/her and love their smile and personality because both of you have platonic chemistry and experienced forbidden sexual tension.

What to do? Avoid him forever until this prob of yours is gone?

Ok side note, I don’t mean obsession or stalking ok?

admin answers:

Let life run its course

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Your Questions About Attracting Women

Sandra asks…

What do boys realy find attracting in women?

Just give your opinion guys. I’m trying to do an essay on what realy attracts guys and the way society forces attraction..Please help me out

admin answers:

Personally… I don’t like a face that has so much make-up that if you wipe it off their face goes with it O.O Ok, I’ll just make a list… From TOP to BOTTOM (get it?)

Hair: Not short (goes past top of shoulders)
Face: Not ugly, pimples are ok because I know they go away, no warts.
Breasts: Existant. I don’t like flat chests, even a little bump will work for me.
Waist: No fat chicks. I don’t want extra-skinny, I just want a normal person…
Butt: Round, not lopsided or saggy. Must actually BE there.
Plumbing: Doesn’t matter, as long as it’s not a penis.
Legs: Slender, not lumpy. I’ve seen lumpy, it was disturbing.
Feet: Nothing specific, ankles can’t be too big.

Lizzie asks…

Do you think pick up artists are genius when it comes to attracting women?

admin answers:

No! Of course not! They are just good looking. Girls are easy for hot guy. Girls don’t want average looking guys regardless of what they say or do.

Linda asks…

Need some help i am attracting teen kids rather than women?

Info first of all i am a muscular guy 5 ft 7.180lbs,12-13% bf all muscle this is my gaining season as i get more muscular more kids teens 16-18 year olds are attracted to me and women my age 20,21 and 22 are not attracted to me.I need some help please.

info i am a 21 year old man.

admin answers:

If they’re 18….why not?

Donald asks…

Generally, how do young women go about attracting a potential suitor or mate?

Generally speaking of course. – Do the ladies use their wit? Their display of some sort of social talent? Allude to their intelligence? Flashing their money? Their knowledge of worldly events? — What tactics and traits do the average young women usually employ to attract men to engage and court them? .. and what does the choice of this/these particular traits suggest about what women feel is their greatest value (according to men at least)?

admin answers:

Different girls have different strong points, so naturally they have different tactics. Different tactics work on different kinds of guys.

For example, some girls use their looks, which works well on guys who are mostly after looks. Some use their intelligence, which works well on guys who like intelligent girls. There’s no average.

Personally, when I’m trying to attract a guy, I just try to make them laugh.

Betty asks…

What are some good cars for attracting women?

admin answers:

I drive a 72 beetle.. And it seems like chicks always to ride in it.. So i am going to go with that.

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Your Questions About Attracting Hummingbirds

Linda asks…

how do i attract hummingbirds?

admin answers:

Try a smile, a friendly word, if all else fails, try flapping your wings really, really fast(i hear they’re suckers for that move).

Susan asks…

I have a ton of moths in my garden, ive planted an english garden that attracts hummingbirds, butterflies, etc?

My question is…are moths in the garden a good thing or a bad thing?

admin answers:

You, my friend, have a nice thing going, so enjoy the life you are hosting.

Moths are not known for biting, spreading disease, or otherwise causing a problem (outside), save some possible but minor issues with lawn turf. To the contrary, really big moths are incredible and quite beautiful (and you can learn to spot their chrysalis or pupal stage enclosures from which they will emerge and leave them be). At an intermediate stage, their caterpillars are also a treat – unless they are eating a plant you want.

The saddest thing is attempting to kill the bad guys – mosquitoes, chiggers, and ticks: Really effective insecticides also burn the moths and butterflies. Sigh…Fortunately, there’s personal insect repellent (think DEET) to ward off the bad guys, so you can sort of have it both ways.

Hummingbirds are delightful. And a yard full of “lighting bugs” after dark.
Have a great summer.

Ruth asks…

I am looking for a privacy hedge about 8-10 feet tall that attracts hummingbirds. Full sun to part shade.?

admin answers:

Oleanders are highly posionious!!! If you have pets those are not a good choice for you!! It would all depend on where you live?? What is the zone you live in?? With that information…I would be able to give you many many ideas!!

William asks…

What plants attract the most hummingbirds? And also can survive in the Houston climate?

admin answers:

Honeysuckle.

Have a look at these websites … Lots of information that should help you.

Mark asks…

Can Hummingbirds be fooled by artificial sweeteners?

If artificial sweeteners were used to sweeten water in Hummingbird feeders, would the hummingbirds still be attracted to them?

admin answers:

It might attract them, but NEVER use artificial sweeteners in hummingbird feeders! It could cause their death.

Only use sugar – they need the calories they get from sugar.

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Your Questions About Attracting Butterflies

Sharon asks…

What are the best things to plant to attract butterflies?

admin answers:

Most brightly colored flowers will draw them.

Steven asks…

How to attract Butterflies in home Garden ?

admin answers:

Plant a butterfly garden or just plant what butterflies love.
Common Name

Azalea
Black-Eyed Susan
Butterfly Bush
Butterfly Weed
Egyptian Star Flower
Ironweed
Joe-Pye Weed
Lantana
French Marigold
New England Aster
Purple Coneflower
Swamp Milkweek
Blazing Star
Vervain
Zinnia

And that’s just a start. Don’t forget to plant plants that the caterpillars can eat:
Willow (Salix spp.)
Black Cherry (Prunus serotina)
Pawpaw (Asimina triloba)
Spicebush (Lindera benzoin)
Hop Tree (Ptelea trifoliata)
Senna (Cassia spp.)
Fennel (Foeniculum vulgare)
Milkweed (Asclepias spp.)

and no pesticides at all EVER!

Maria asks…

Do you need gardening tips? Want to know how to attract butterflies?

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admin answers:

Yes, I love everything it happen all over the garden, the butterflies came all along, over some bushes with rose and red flowers, called Santa Rita , this is the name of that kind of bush, in which branches the sparrows, thrushes, and calenders too, like to rest in the middle of their wings,

Linda asks…

How can I attract more butterflies and less bees to the little white flowers in my grass?

admin answers:

Ditto on the earlier answer – and remember, honeybees are interested in the pollen, not you, so you can figure that if you don’t bother them they generally won’t bother you. Wasps, on the other hand……..

Also, consider putting in plants that are more specifically attractive to butterflies, such as Butterfly Bush (Buddleia) and Butterfly Weed (Asclepias). The structure of their flower is much more attractive to butterflies than they are to bees.

The little white flowers in your grass are more than likely clover – which will attract anything that likes pollen.

David asks…

Does anyone know why butterflies might be attracted to my bedroom?

I have no idea why butterflies are always lingering in my room. Basically they are small brown one’s. and it’s not like once a week i see one, there is sometimes 4 at a time, and i guess they kinda live there, in the dark. It’s only in my room and no other room in the house. i don’t think my room anything to attract those creatures.

admin answers:

Not sure …… But i’m slightly amused that a person with the screename “world domination” has a butterfly problem

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Your Questions About Attracting Men

Michael asks…

Would you fancy me? Having trouble attracting men, need honest feedback on pics!!?

I am currently having trouble finding a boyfriend and wonder if men are put off because of my curves? I know I am quite plump but I am certainly not fat by any means, please let me know what you think? My curves are shown in the following pics in this link:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/47362245@N03/

Please be honest, I need to know if I need to slim down a little??

admin answers:

Ignore …………

Betty asks…

Which woman (out of these 2) will have a better chance of attracting men?

1) a single mom
2) a married mom in an open relationship with husband

admin answers:

“Men” isn’t a monolithic group with a single belief system. There’s someone for everyone. I can guarantee the if these people looked in the right places, they can get men as easily as the other category of women.

Sharon asks…

Why am I attracting men? I don’t get it?

Look. I’m not in the position to date anyone. Right now dating isn’t my thing, at all. I’m just interested in living, and just having fun enjoying myself, men turn me off in a way – I don’t have a sexual drive, it’s not all there, I really don’t have the desire to have sex.

Often Its been unfortunate that guys are attracted to me. I don’t know what I am doing. I don’t flirt with any of them. I’m just nice and friendly just as I am with everyone. Recently there’s been this guy, he’s making his attraction for me obvious (touching me, trying to hug me, always around me, trying to talk to me, getting upset when I talk to other people) I don’t get it. I’m not doing anything. How can guys find the time to be attracted to me? It seems really vile. What am I doing. What can I do differently? I’m not a lesbian, I’m attracted to guys, but sexually not really I have fantasies sometimes but in reality sex doesn’t interest me and I feel bad for having to turn them down. Just wish I knew what was attracting them?

admin answers:

Guys are just into women. Your nice personality and looks attract them.

Robert asks…

Be Brutally Honest- Why do I keep attracting men like this?

I keep attracting phony guys. No offense, I know relationships are not about looks. I usually attract guys who appear humble and talk so beautifully how they know to treat a woman right, they are not shallow, but once I really get involved with them. They always criticized men who cheated, even though they all proved to be little cheaters themselves. Majority of time, they have a sob story, no offense, i do feel bad when people have sad lives. I usually date guys who have been in foster care, have dead parents, etc. They would be rude to me, put me down continuously, manipulate me, blackmail, cheat on me, borrow a lot of money from me and never pay me back like they promise, steal my wallet, etc. As you can see I am very bitter. I thought “unattractive” men were supposed to be kind.
Holy crap, the second guy who answered must know me. You are right, I do not always speak my mind. I am complete people-pleaser. I try to do everything to make others happy instead of myself.
No I am not your ex. I amazed by your skills. Thank you.

admin answers:

To keep it short…

Like attracts like!

I bet any money you are phony to! Perhaps not putting on a huge act, but definitely not being yourself and speaking your mind, and not doing what you want, but doing what others want so you be accepted.

I mean look at your “I usually date Guys who have been in foster care/dead parents/ HAVE A LOT OF EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE!” …………..

I honestly think you are trying to fix others instead of fixing yourself.

This isn’t a knock to you btw, we all do/have done it.

You can only attract different Men by changing yourself, not by trying to change them into what you wanna be.

One word… Avoidance.

You are basically trying to fill a hole in yourself… I bet you believe in “I need someone to complete me”… No that’s wrong dude… You should be complete before you go into a relationship. A relationship should just be an extension of you.

I think you have some personal work to do.

(i’ll throw in too… Perhaps you feel you don’t deserve to be happy?)
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Nah I don’t know you… Wait you aren’t my psycho ex Girlfriend are you? :P
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EDIT2: HONESTLY… I used to be the same… Still am a TINY bit… I am a Big Brother, and I used to see it as my task to help others and my happiness is irrelevant as long as they are happy, however one day I realised with my younger Brother, that I couldn’t wrap him up in cotton wool and make him strong, because doing this I was robbing him of the opportunity to do it himself and become independent and strong. I can’t have his back all the time. I have done this with past Girlfriends to… And their friends always viewed me as manipulative and trying to change them how I wanted to be…

When in fact, I just wanted to help them be a better person, I’m good at optimising, it’s part of my psychological profile, however obviously over time, or even straight up… Others take it as a personal attack on them, and lash out back at you, and you think wtf i’m trying to help! And then the cycle begins, and if you stay in the relationship you end up the one suffering…

They ofc have their own personal sh*t on top of this to!

After a lot of study and reflection over the past few years, I have realised you have to look after number one first, and then others… But even then sparingly because people start taking liberties with you, and you have to realise it’s their life and their responsibility not yours.

I’ll be honest, I have become somewhat a “meaner” Guy, who deals out a lot of “tough love” over the past couple of years… And I get a lot of anger back… But you know what… In the end they fall into my arms crying and then like magic start to turn their life around… THIS is when you can support them! Again though not too much…. The only rights a human should have is a chance! Everything else including freedom should be earned and fought for!

It’s great you want to help others even if it is part of your own avoidance or not, but at what cost to you and what cost to them?
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Now at 26 (ugh I feel like 44 lol), I actual prevoke people to speed up the process of self control and self realisation… I mean if people are going to pussy foot around issues/problems just to be nice/polite/fit in/accepted… That person ain’t never gonna changed because they are blinded to their own truth, and people agreeing on top of it, certainly don’t help.

I don’t suggest you become an elite troll like me, lol, what I do suggest though is you take a couple of years off, maybe two or three, from the dating scene and get your own shit together.

You could start here:

http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp

Take the psychological profile test, and google your personality type, see what makes you tick, see how your mind works, and you’ll be able to start seeing the destuctive patterns in your behaviour…

Because once you have learnt and are able to identify something, you can then change it… Because you certainly can’t change what you can’t see!

Goodluck babe! It’s tough in the beginning, but it’s worth it. :)
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Lol. I do try, and thank you. I hope this helps.

Btw ” are you my ex girlfriend?” was a joke, lol.
(I’m also funny on weekends ;P)
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Nancy asks…

Is it a coincidence when women complain that they attract gay men?

I have read some websites where ladies complained that they attract gey men. Well I think it’s just a bit coincidental that they are attracting guys who say they are not attracted to them. The guy said they are gey, or unavailable what I read. It must be something in the ladies personality that caused the guy to say they’re not available.
I had a lot of failed relationships but I do not know why every one of them was so complicated.

admin answers:

Honestly i think the girls that say that are probably just stuck up and asking for attention.

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Your Questions About Attracting Birds

Betty asks…

how can I attract birds to my new feeder?

I just got a new bird feeder (my first one) and I want to know how I can get birds. Where should I place it? It is currently hanging at the top of a pole in my backyard. I had a bird house before which was successful but I need help with this.

I also have a bird attracter “cake” do you think that would work?

admin answers:

Do you see many birds in the area?

Obviously if there are few to none you will not attract birds, but it is BEST that birds are not attracted to feeders.

The few remaining must contend with predators, hawks in particular to remain alive. So anything that attracts these poor creatures is merely hastening their demise as hawks recognize an easy meal..

I myself and my granddaughter a few years ago saw a large redtail sitting in her backyard peach tree with bird feeder, in a FLASH that hawk consumed the chickadees, if you were not alert and aware you would not even have seen the attacks they happened so quickly. The chickadees never knew what hit them.

Do these little creatures a favor, dont contribute to their extermination.

David asks…

How can I attract birds to my back yard to shoot them?

I have a bunch of raisins and some other stuff and alot of birds in my back yard how can I lure them close enough to shoot with a umarex mp5 k-pdw co2 bb gun it is 450 fps how can I get them in close plz help

admin answers:

*sigh*….here we go again.

Its illegal to shoot songbirds. Its illegal to hunt in the city limits. Its illegal to shoot federally protected migratory species. Its illegal to hunt legal game birds with a BB gun.

Were you going to eat the birds you shoot? Of course you werent, it never crossed your mind did it?
Stick to targets that are not living breathing things until you understand the proper methods and procedures for killing living and breathing things. If you want to hunt something, go take hunter safetly and learn how to do it the legal and ethical way.

Robert asks…

What kinds of seeds attract the largest variety of birds (I live in Michigan)?

Right now, we use black oil sunflower seed and those attract mainly cardinals and most of the common smaller birds like chickadees, titmouses, etc… and we use thistle for the goldfinches. My Mom said all other seeds are a waste of money and are mostly just filler seeds. I heard many birds like safflower seeds. How can I attract those bird that have the parrot like beak (I can’t remember their name!) and are on the larger side? We used to get them. What kind of feeders are best? Do you recommend a certain brand or a place to buy them? And if I were to buy mixed seed, what brand would attract the most birds? Do you think I should build one of those long wooden things with legs that has an area to hold seeds (they look like the things horses eat out of, if you know what I’m talking about)? And we tend to put our feeders right by the windows to discourage squirrels and get a closer look, should I put some further back as some varities might be more timid? THANKS!

admin answers:

A mixed seed will attract more kinds of birds. They all have their favorite types of food and a blend will appeal to more of them Add suet to your feeding program as well.

Sandy asks…

How Do I attract wild birds into my garden?

I’ve tried everything, from seeds, bread and water. still nothing. How do I attract wild birds into my garden ?
I have a bird feeder and a bird bath!

admin answers:

Provide bird boxes with various size entry holes. This will allow different species of birds to nest. Also try getting a bird bath to attract them. *

Mary asks…

If I scatter bird seed on my porch, how long will it take for birds to notice it?

If I would like to attract birds to my porch and garden, how much bird seed do I need to scatter at first? Will birds come right away or do they only come in the morning? Will take a few mornings before they notice it? Also, is there anything else that will attract birds? Thanks!

admin answers:

If you want to attract birds doing what your doing will work but you just have to wait awhile (like a day or two) before they notice it.

BUT, if you live around squirrel’s which almost everyone does, they will scare the birds away and eat all of the seed. So if that happens you may want to get squirrel proof bird feeders.

One more thing…. If you like the squirrels you can get these awesome two-way-mirror, half circle things that fit in your window. They allow you to watch the squirrels while the eat and sometimes fight over the seed,….their really funny

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Your Questions About Attracting Butterflies

Paul asks…

Best flowers to attract bees and butterflies for zones 4 and 5?

What are the largest and most beautiful looking flowers that will attract bees and butterflies to my garden? Any information would be great. Thanks, happy growing

admin answers:

Purple coneflowers (echinacea), rudbeckia, bachelor’s buttons, tithonia (Mexican sunflowers), zinnias, and cosmos are all good large-flowered candidates. Bees can go into any kind of flower, but butterflies like flat flowers (they’re easier for big-winged insects to land on), and all of these will appeal to both bees and butterflies. Bees love herb flowers–rosemary, basil, thyme, oregano, dill, fennel, anise hyssop, borage–so it’s good to let some herbs in borders go to seed.

If you’re interested in attracting beneficial insects (pollinators, predators, and parasitoids), it’s not just what flowers you have planted, but the spatial arrangement of the plants.

For more information, see
http://www.grow-it-organically.com/attracting-beneficial-insects.html

Richard asks…

What flowers can I plant to attract more butterflies?

Yesterday I saw not only a red admiral in our backyard, but a black swallowtail and a HUGE tiger swallowtail, fluttering around our lilac bush. I would love to see more! =)
I live in Ohio if that helps with the climate issue. I forgot that certain plants only thrive in certain conditions and shade/sunlight.

admin answers:

Here are some links to help you. There are a lot of butterfly attracting plants. Keep in mind that you need larval host plants and nectar plants. There may be very specific plants for your area as certain butterflies like certain plants. If you search online, you can generally find sites that are specific for your state.

Good luck!

Http://bexar-tx.tamu.edu/HomeHort/F4Best/nButterflyPlants.htm

http://www.butterfliesetc.com/aabybutterfly.php

http://www.backyardbrevard.com/butterflies2.html

Good basic info:

http://www.nwf.org/backyard/butterflies.cfm

If you are in California, this is a great site:

http://mamba.bio.uci.edu/~pjbryant/biodiv/bflyplnt.htm

EDIT: Plants specific to Ohio:

http://ourohio.org/index.php?page=butterfly-gardening-attracting-butterflies-to-your-garden

http://www.thebutterflysite.com/butterfly-bush.shtml

http://www.thebutterflysite.com/create-butterfly-garden.shtml

Sharon asks…

What plants or flowers attract butterflies?

And not so much yellow jackets or knats..

admin answers:

The secret to attracting butterflies is to plant native flowers or wild flowers.

Joseph asks…

Where can I get food to attract Monarch butterflies?

What can I place in a garden to attract them? Besides the flowers? Where can I find it and for how much?

admin answers:

Here’s a post I wrote a while back answering this very question. Not only does it include the flowers but has a recipe for a concoction that is sure to bring the butterflies flocking to your yard.

Sandra asks…

I am going to a butterfly conservatory. What is the best color to wear to attract the butterflies?

I heard “white” is the best color. True?

admin answers:

Like plants that attract butterflies, visitors who wear brightly colored clothing will attract more butterflies. Those bright colors include any floral patterns, pinks, purples, oranges, reds or yellows.

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Your Questions About Attracting Men

James asks…

Attracting dominant men?

I was curious as to what everyone thought about the personality types that attract dominant men? I am not referring to abusive types but men with the “alpha male” streak? What would you suppose attracts men like that? Is it an ultra-feminine exterior/interior that attracts the ultra-masculine personality? We were talking about this in my Race, Class, & Gender class? What qualities would a woman have to attract a dominant personality? Please don’t say insecurity or lack of confidence because I know that many view those traits as dead giveaways. Thanks for your help.

admin answers:

Alpha males need freedom. They also enjoy confirmation from their mate that they are appreiated. My experience is that alpha males like to be consulted regarding large decisions, that they like a partner who is secure in her own image, and who can also augment his climb to the top. They eschew being contradicted by their partner in public, but will accept suggestions that will result in more positive results in future activities. Culture, ethnicity, social status and affirmation will result in the reinforcement of his self image.

Nancy asks…

is it more important for a man to be goodlooking in order to have the same EASE in attracting the opposite sex?

and have the same number of dating & sexual opportunities, as women ?

average looking women can attract men easily.
they get may opportunities to date and have sexual relations.

only very goodlooking men can attract women THAT easily and get the same number of opportunities.

if you disagree, then please tell me..how can we account for this? what to make of it?

admin answers:

Are you Max Power?

Daniel asks…

Why am I attracting men who only want to have no strings sex?

Seems as tho only one or two fellows actually want to date, get to know one another and start a relationship, while most just want to get into my pants…I want to date and not put out before I am good and ready!

admin answers:

Most guys are going to test the waters & TRY to have sex right away. I think this is in their nature. But overall, even if he is a good guy trying to get in ur pants, then only u have that power to say no or make ur own decisions. Most men will respect a women if they don’t give it up fast, even when they are trying at a fast speed. Trust me they’ll try, but their overall opinion of you will be more respectable if they see you respect your body too

George asks…

Why in my late 20″s am I attracted to men double or more my age?

When I hit my early 20″s I started attracting men my parents age or older and thought it was gross and disturbing. But now I’m attracted to men almost double my age, I’m not after money or any ridiculous crap, but am genuinly attracted to men much older than myself. Is it something dealing with pushing 30? Any theories?

admin answers:

Older men tend to be more caring and gentle. They’ve learnt from life’s experiences what a woman substantially younger than themselves really wants in a relationship and you respond to that aura of care and compassion. Without knowing your personality or background, I’d say your life’s experiences are very mature and your interests lie in areas way above your own age group. After that it’s a matter of the meeting of minds.

Imagine yourself in a room talking to a man where a screen separates you and you have no idea of his age. All you can tell is he’s at least as old as yourself from the sound of his voice. During your conversation, you discover common interests and likings for certain topics and you feel attracted toward him, just as he is attracted toward you. Anything wrong so far? No!!!

Suddenly the screen is taken away and you see a man twice your age. Is that a cue to abandon the possibility of a relationship when you are already a compatible couple? No!!!

Society norms and conventions teaches us that intergenerational relationships are bad, but that’s based on the opinions of others who seek their own age groups through like education. Even so there will always be snide comments passed like “cradle snatching” and inferences that “he was potentially having sex with you when you were a baby”. All that aside, it comes down to enjoying each other’s company in the privacy of you own home. The only drawback being the longevity of the relationship.

Hope these theories help you.

Susan asks…

should a woman change her look if she is not attracting the men she likes?

Yes I’m single, I’m wondering can a chane of hair color help me increase my chances to meet different people…my hair been black for 9years

admin answers:

Chaning your outside appearance isn’t going to land you Mr. Right asap. But it could help you somewhat. I would research hairstylists throughouly before making any major changes. Make a list of the things you dislike about your hair ( flat, too dark, ect.) and what you love. Go to the one you pick and tell them what you want and that you’re in a hair rut showing them the list. Don’t be afraid to talk to them. If they’re in a rotten mood or just don’t want to talk, pick someone who will. It’s your hair afterall! Don’t go too drastic though. Changing your hair and liking the new look can change your confidence. And from my experience men LOOVE a confident woman!

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